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The Cardinal Rule of Prayer

September 5, 2014 by Ellen 25 Comments

“Did you see that? A bird just flew into your window!”

“I know.”

“Here he comes again!”

WHAM!

“It’s a cardinal!”

The bright red bird slammed himself against my office window once again.

“How often does he do that?”

“A couple of times a day, several days a week, and he’s been at it for over a year!”

Cardinal 1

After about six months, I named the bird. After nine months, I began having conversations with him (NOTE: 90% of my day I am alone in the office. It’s ok if I talk to the bird!):

“Redd, you are such a birdbrain! Stop. It. Stop it!  You aren’t getting anywhere!”

Mr. Redd is a perfect example of the definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.

Hmmph! I would never beat my brains out time and again, repeating the same thing, with no sign of progress! Not me! Never!

Or would I? The next morning during my prayer time, I found myself petitioning God for the same lost loved ones, the same prodigals, that had been off and on my prayer list for a year or more. Redd came to mind. I thought about his persistence and tenacity. I thought how consistently he beats himself against the window. He never gives up.

The only difference between me and Redd, is that I do give up. I pray and pray and pray, and don’t see anything happening. I think “What’s the use? This will never change!” And I stop beating my head against the window.

Luke 18:1 One day Jesus told his disciples a story to show that they should always pray and never give up. (NLT)

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Shouldn’t I be insane in my praying? Can I do that? Pray insanely for someone or some situation? God is always working. I may never see the progress God is making. Or, the it may seem so small, that I don’t notice. Then one day, I look around, and my prayer has been answered!

Slowly, gradually over time, God has answered. No big fanfare or lightning flashes. Just a snail-like movement that almost goes unnoticed.

Mr. Redd may have seemed insane, but he taught me a powerful lesson:

Let your prayers be insane!

Always expect different results, responses, behaviors.

Always expect your prayers to make a difference! God can do it!

 

 

Linking up today with #TellHisStory, Holley Gerth, and Woman to Woman Wednesday!

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Comments

  1. James Buie says

    September 5, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    Ellen….enjoyed this so much…wonderful thought…loved the photo of Mr. Redd also!

    JWB

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 5, 2014 at 8:42 pm

      Bro. Buie! Thanks so much for stopping by! I appreciate all your encouragement. Please give Mrs. Chris a hug from me! PS – Redd is still pecking at my window!

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  2. Sabra Penley says

    September 6, 2014 at 6:38 am

    Cardinals are my favorite bird. I will probably think of this story every time I see one. What a beautiful message and truth. Blessings to you, Ellen.

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  3. Ellen Chauvin says

    September 6, 2014 at 8:52 am

    Thank you so much Sabra! I loved the graphic you put together for your marriage post. Thanks for stopping by!

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    • Sabra Penley says

      September 6, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Thanks, Ellen!

      Reply
  4. misskathypwp says

    September 6, 2014 at 2:55 pm

    Ellen – this post was perfection on so many fronts! Love your style – and your visionary blog name and verse. Looking forward to reading more of you in the future. Following you on facebook!
    Joy!
    Kathy at The Writer’s Reverie

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 6, 2014 at 6:04 pm

      Kathy, thanks so much for stopping by! And for the FB follow – I appreciate you! Love your blog – so glad I saw your Memorial Stones title on Tell His Story! I’m one of your newest followers on Twitter! Can’t wait to dig into the “pretty” on your blog!

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  5. sarahgirl3 says

    September 8, 2014 at 12:20 pm

    Funny how God teaches us lessons like this, through His creation! Let us keep praying insane prayers for those we love!

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 8, 2014 at 12:33 pm

      Amen Sarah! Thanks so much for stopping by!

      Reply
  6. betsydecruz says

    September 13, 2014 at 8:40 am

    Hey Ellen! I LOVE that cardinal picture. And your CARDINAL rule is brilliant! Oh, I have things I want to keep praying for too. Wish I had a cardinal crashing into MY window to remind me each day! 🙂

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 13, 2014 at 9:22 am

      Hey Betsy! Thanks for stopping by! I had been wanting to write about this cardinal for some time! Finally it hit me – much like him slamming into the window – that I need to be insane in praying! And yes, he is a daily reminder, though sometimes irritating!

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  7. Jill Sexton says

    September 14, 2014 at 5:21 pm

    Hello Ellen, I too am fond of the Cardinal. That is North Carolina,s State bird 🙂
    I enjoyed your post and the encouragement to keep that prayer wheel turning. Blessings, Jill

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  8. Ellen Chauvin says

    September 14, 2014 at 8:06 pm

    Jill, thanks for stopping by! I remember that you love cardinals! Yes, we must persevere in our prayers!

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  9. Abby says

    September 16, 2014 at 3:12 pm

    How often I have been guilty of this, Ellen. I pray and pray and pray and then I give up because I don’t see results. At least not the ones I expect. Thank you for this lovely reminder to be persistent and expect an answer. I needed this!

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 16, 2014 at 3:41 pm

      Mr. Redd was visiting today, and what a great reminder to continue lifting up those I love! Thanks for stopping by Abby!

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  10. kristine says

    September 18, 2014 at 5:56 am

    Boy, did I need to hear this today!! Thanks, Ellen!

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    • Ellen Chauvin says

      September 18, 2014 at 9:16 am

      Kristine, thanks for stopping by! Evidently, I need a lot of reminders myself, as Mr. Redd is still at it, constantly flying into my window!!

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  11. Carmen Horne says

    March 19, 2015 at 9:42 am

    This made me laugh as I thought of you talking to that bird. We had a bird like that once. I told Lary, why in the world does that bird peck on that window every day! He needs someone to put him out of his misery!

    Great word picture of being persistent! “Let your prayers be insane”! love it!

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    • Ellen says

      March 19, 2015 at 1:34 pm

      Funny thing Carmen. FINALLY the bird stopped beating himself against my window. It made me sad! I thought he must’ve broken his neck. Then a week or so later, he came by for one tiny peck!

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  12. Jeannie Pallett says

    June 16, 2015 at 7:26 pm

    How blessed I am to be beside you at the #RaRa linkup. The biggest thing about prayer that I have had to remember lately is to expect that God is not going to answer the same way twice and to be expecting a different walk of faith while He answers. And long ago I got into the habit of thanking Him before I see the answers manifest because I have the confidence I am asking according to His will. The lessons He teaches us in such creative ways stick with us and I know you will never forget Mr. Redd.

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    • Ellen says

      June 17, 2015 at 12:27 pm

      Oh Jeannie, I love how you expect God to answer in different ways! That is beautiful! I always learn from you when you stop by!

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  13. ~ linda says

    June 17, 2015 at 3:50 pm

    What a perfect picture to remind me of “the Cardinal Rule of prayer.” I seem to be a visual learned more often than not and find that this kind of aid will remind me of just how I am to pray along with God’s Word. I was just thinking about the verse to “pray without ceasing.”
    Caring through Christ, ~ linda

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    • Ellen says

      June 18, 2015 at 3:17 pm

      I’m a visual learner, too, Linda! Thanks so much for stopping by!

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  14. Kelly Balarie says

    June 18, 2015 at 10:32 am

    Ellen, how fun this post is! I loved it. I am going to tweet it out because it’s so true. I love how ordinary life is so full of truth don’t you? Thank you for reminding me. You encourage me to be persistent. Cheering you from the #RaRalinkup on Purposeful Faith.

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    • Ellen says

      June 18, 2015 at 3:18 pm

      Thank you sweet friend! Your cheers encourage me!

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